Kickstart Your Wedding Design with GHD

Just got engaged and have absolutely no idea where to get started? You’ve come to the right place!

Gathered Here Designs has officially launched a brand-new lineup of virtual wedding design services tailored for newly engaged couples looking to kickstart their wedding design journey. Whether you're planning a DIY wedding and just need a little extra support or don’t have a single design bone in your body, GHD has a service to match your needs!

3 of Virtual Wedding Design Services

Just like your love story, your wedding design needs are unique, which is why GHD offers 3 different virtual design packages:

1. Basic Package – Perfect for couples who need a creative spark, while also keeping to a tight budget! We help you define your wedding vision through custom color palettes, a wedding mood board, a collaborative Pinterest board and a discount code for wedding stationary so you can confidently move forward with your DIY wedding planning.

2. Deluxe Package – This is for couples who want more than just a starting point. In addition to the basic package, you’ll receive a customized list of products that match your wedding style, a 1:1 virtual meeting with yours truly, and FREE access to my wedding planning course (including budget trackers, guest-list trackers, templates, and more!). 

3. Ultimate Package – The ideal choice for couples who want a fully realized wedding design. You’ll receive TWO virtual 1:1 meetings, an extensive collaborative Pinterest board with up to 2 revisions, a centerpiece concept, and wedding flower suggestions - plus FREE access to my wedding planning course (including budget trackers, guest-list trackers, templates, and more!).

Why Choose Gathered Here Designs?

Our virtual services are designed with affordability and flexibility in mind, making them ideal for couples planning a wedding on a budget. As a former DIY bride myself, I know just how important it is to 1) have a plan & 2) stay on budget!

At GHD we believe that beautiful, well-planned weddings aren’t just for those with big budgets or full-service planners. With our expert guidance, you can confidently create a stunning wedding day that reflects your style and personality.

So, if you're newly engaged and ready to dive into wedding planning, let Gathered Here Designs guide you through the process! Explore our services and take the first step towards turning your wedding vision into reality.

Let’s make magic together—one wedding design detail at a time!

3 Things that did NOT matter at my wedding

Remember a couple weeks ago, when I shared the 3 things I loved the most about my wedding? Well today I want to share the 3 things that mattered least to me (at the time) about the wedding.

If you’re in the beginning stages of your wedding planning and design, you might be thinking EVERYTHING matters. That’s cute, enjoy that. At some point though, there’s going to come a moment where it’s either time or money that will force you to prioritize what matters most and give up or give in on a few things that don’t matter as much to you.

To help ease the tension in wedding planning and design priorities, I encourage couples to chat early on in the process with their partner to identify the most important elements of their wedding. This way there are no (or at least fewer) surprises later on.

My spouse and I planned, designed, and paid for our wedding ourselves. When we got married, money was TIGHT (student loan debt anyone?). With our tight budget (we only had $5,000 for the wedding total - including all rentals, photography, food, music, etc.), we had to skimp on some things.

Below are the 3 things that mattered least to us and therefore got the least amount of our wedding budget.

Food

I can hear my older sister sighing as I write this…food was not our top priority at the wedding. I know this sounds bananas, but remember the part about being broke? Yah, that played a big role in the food. My spouse comes from a BIG family, so many aunts and uncles. His aunts volunteered to make the food at cost.

For about $500ish the aunts put together pasta dishes, rolls, salads, maybe chicken? I literally do not remember the food because it was not important to us and we barely had time to eat between all the talking and dancing.

Insert my sister going on and on about all the dishes we had with mayonnaise in them (yes, she still talks about this 14 years later). Looking back, it probably wasn’t the best idea to have so much mayonnaise outside on a 90+ degree summer day, but no one got sick from it and we didn’t become more broke so, in the end, it all worked out. The food was so unimportant, there isn’t even a photo of it. The cake though was fabulous and we had it baked by a soroity friend of my mother-in-law’s for $125-$150ish.

The food didn’t matter, but the cake had to be on point!

Flowers

Flowers are beautiful and in case you didn’t know, I LOVE wedding flowers (see here). While beautiful, they’re also pricey. If I had known what I know now about flowers, I probably would have explored more about wholesale and bulk options (more on that here). At the time though, we were just trying to plan quickly (engaged in January 2010, married July 2010) and stay on budget.

I did end up working with a florist for bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres and a feel single rose aisle pieces (pictured below). The centerpieces I did myself via Gerber daisies ordered wholesale at Costco (more on that here).

If I were to redo our wedding today, I would likely DIY the flowers (for sure corsage cuffs!) and maybe outsource the bridal bouquet and maybe a floral arch or ground arch for the ceremony. I also love the look of looser bouquets. The messy and wild looking ones - kind of like marriage, they’re imperfect, one-of-a-kind, and beautiful.

Single roses with vines in mason jars down the aisle - held by Shepards hooks

View of the boutonnière and my bouquet circa 2010

Bridesmaid Dresses

Our wedding was outside on a ranch in the heat of the day, so dresses needed to be shorter and breathable. Insert the idea for a cotton sundress. I just had my two sisters as my bridesmaids. Weddings feel very intimate to me, so I prefer the approach of only have the closest people in my life standing next to me. I know some people like big wedding parties and if that’s your jam, I say go for it! As more of an introvert though, I’m big on quality of quantity.

For my sisters, I gave them the options to buy their own dress and get lunch and nails done on me or I could buy the dress for them without the fun stuff. My younger sister was still in high school when I got married, so my parents covered her dress and my older sister opted to buy her own dress and I took her out for lunch and a pedicure.

My younger sister in the bridesmaid dress - such a cutie!

My older sister and I pre-wedding - keeping me laughing as usual

While what mattered least to me, might end up being what matters most to you on your big day and that’s okay. Find out what matters to you and your partner.

My hope is this helps get your wheels turning about what you may or may not want to prioritize with your wedding budget. Looking for more inspiration? Check out my Pinterest which is full of ideas and free templates to help you with your wedding design journey.

In the end, I’ll say the thing that will really end up mattering about your wedding is who you spend it with. My co-worker recently shared the thing she was most excited about with her upcoming wedding was “all her worlds colliding” and this made so much sense to me. If we were to redo our wedding today, we might prioritize things a little differently, though I would never change the overall vibe or joy that day bought (more on that kind of wedding magic here).

Shoutout to Ashliegh - wishing you a wonderful wedding weekend, may all your worlds collide in the most perfect way!!!

Happy Wedding!